Jen made me get this.

dear ben & jerry, please make this…


dear ben & jerry, please make this…

a guide to terminology as used by western males of the species

prude - a woman who won’t fuck you

dyke - a woman who won’t fuck you because you have a penis

slut - a woman who fucks other people and not you

tease - a woman who won’t fuck you even though she smiled at you

feminist - a woman who won’t fuck you because she has, like, thoughts and stuff

I really appreciate this blog. I'm child-free and plan to stay that way for the foreseeable future. While I don't agree with you on all points, I find this blog insightful, informative, and comforting--I'm glad there are many kindred spirits out there! I'm sure you've been asked already, but I'd love to hear your thoughts on the "Toughest Job in the World" ad campaign that's going around. It frustrates me so much that I cannot even put it into words.


Well hey, you don’t have to agree with me on everything. I value all of my followers and your presence is always welcome here. Thank you for your comments!

I don’t know which campaign you’re referring to, and got tons of results on Google. I can guess what it’s about. Something like how parenting is the toughest job in the world? First of all, it’s not a job. It’s a lifestyle. A job is a profession you work in and get monetarily compensated for. Just because parenting isn’t a job doesn’t mean it’s not hard and time-consuming, because it is. It’s important. It is a tough position and requires tough actions. But it is not a position superior to the ways other people spend their work hours. It doesn’t make someone a harder worker than non-parents. Glorifying it as the toughest job in the world adds more stigma to the childfree, cements child-centric culture, and devalues anyone who isn’t a parent. This kind of mentality frustrates me too.



the fact that people are like “Coca Cola supports racial equality, I’m not going to be drinking Coca Cola anymore” and “Google supports gay rights I’m not going to use them anymore” like what next “the Earth provides Oxygen to ethnic minorities I’m going to stop breathing in protest”